When our right to space and our right to say no is constantly overrun in childhood, we have the resulting “masochistic energy pattern”. It involves the suppression of will and desire at a time when the ability to negotiate is just being developed. The body center is developed and the feelings are being explored. There […]
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Energetic Manners and The Search For Love
What do energetic manners have to do with the search for love? Because all of our energetic coping mechanisms are a result of some developmental stage in which our needs weren’t met, it stands to reason that when we are not nourished properly, we continually seek that nourishment through love and attention. We all […]
Energetic Coping Mechanisms
How is it possible that we could harbor unconscious beliefs that question our basic rights of human existence? We have the right to be here, to be loved, to have our own space, to feel safe, and to feel. If those rights do not get met in early childhood, we develop energetic coping mechanisms. Each […]